Forgiveness is a very powerful part of living a positive life. Without forgiveness you will be full of negative feelings and thoughts which really serve no purpose. To live a full and purposeful life you need to be able to forgive people that you believe have wronged you in some way, but bear in mind that forgiving is NOT the same as forgetting. You need to forgive so you can move on with life. You also need to be able to forgive yourself for things you may have said or done, or even not done in some instances. Before you can forgive others forgive yourself first.
What is a Positive Mindset?
Definition
Having a positive mindset is a philosophy of life. People who adopt this philosophy believe that having an optimistic disposition in every situation attracts change and increases achievement.
What are the characteristics of a Positive Mindset
The parts that make up a Positive Mindset appear to be different for each individual. For me I would say the following:
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- Focus – A negative mind is a distracted mind. Stay thinking positively to keep your focus at its best.
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- Flexibility – Everyone has there share of failures, but it is how successful people handle there’s which is the difference. Often people who think negatively give up when faced with obstacles or challenges.
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- Self Belief – Positive thinking breeds confidence, and confident people are often successful. People lacking confidence are afraid to stand up for themselves, to speak up when required. They will never stand out from the crowd. Self belief is vital when taking risks.
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- Optimism – A willingness to make an effort and take a chance instead of assuming your efforts won’t pay off.
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- Acceptance – Acknowledging that things don’t always turn out how you want them, but learning from your mistakes.
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- Resilience – Being able to bounce back from adversity, disappointment and failure instead of giving up.
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- Gratitude – Appreciating the good things in your life.
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- Integrity – Being honourable, honest and straightforward, instead of deceitful and self serving.